The next two days were spent in quiet isolation, while driving north to MT. I listened to no music nor audio books. I spoke on the phone only occasionally, as necessary, but mostly, simply basked in my own reflections, drowning myself in the overview, analysis, and evaluation of the previous month. I enveloped my mind in a warm contemplation of the past, present and future and dissected and examined without limit or end. Any disruption was an annoyance, as I indulged profoundly in thought.
I knew I had a very beautiful and loving man anxiously awaiting my arrival. However, I was feeling a perfectly synchronized dance between an utter sense of dread and a powerfully magnetic longing. The last thing I wanted to do was to walk back into my home, what had been our happy camping house, alone, without my son. I was being tortured by the my own, personal little emotional terrorist, as I so intensely dreaded the sound of the silence and vacancy, screaming in my heart and echoing throughout the house, as I opened the door. I dreaded the crushing sensation of my aloneness. The umbilicus to my son had been severed, and what had been a bonded twosome of 19 years, was now returning a sole creature stuffed to bursting seams with nothing but question marks.
I also, fervently longed to see my wonderful man, the love of my life. How I had missed him while away. My heart doesn’t beat properly without him. In our separation, my lungs fail to inhale as deeply, and my smile lacks its luster. Unfortunately, with every quickened mile that I got closer to him, his arms, his warmth, his kiss, I also got closer to my dreaded, screaming pain. Why did they have to be in the same location? Drat! However, onward I drove, to the bloody, elated, loving train wreck that lay waiting ahead. With every mile shrinking the distance between myself and my pending…whatever, my feelings intensified all around. My heart was raced, my breathing shallowed. Home was just around the corner.